Holy Cross History: Art Romano
Art Romano has lived on Emily Street in Kensington for decades. He first found himself in the DC region when he moved from Utica, NY with his first wife, Shirley. He worked for the Department of the Navy and spent years working as an engineer. Art was educated at Syracuse University.
His family (including three children) joined Holy Cross in 1967. Back in the ‘60s, there were parish boundaries so Art and his family were technically supposed to go to a church on Viers Mill Rd.
“We went to Holy Cross and it was just so nice, we talked to the pastor at the time and asked if there’s anything we could do to become parishioners there instead,” Art said. “He said ‘if your kids want to come, we can make you a member of Holy Cross.’”
Art and Shirley became friends with six other families with children of similar ages. They used to meet in Lewis Hall after the 9 a.m. Mass on Sunday mornings and enjoy donuts and coffee. “We visited each other constantly and spent some Easters together and went on hikes—we never missed mass and were always there for each other,” Art said.
Throughout his years at Holy Cross, the now 80-something has helped fellow parishioners and neighbors fix things around their home. Using his engineering background, Romano is often approached by people after Mass asking if he was the “Mr. Romano that fixed things.”
Art even met his second wife Donna through the Holy Cross community. After Shirley passed away from breast cancer, Art met Donna, who lived in his neighborhood and worked as a secretary at Holy Cross School. Three years later, the two were married. Donna has since passed away from Alzheimer’s and dementia but Art stayed at Holy Cross, saying he “still loves it.”
While he says getting older and the current COVID-19 pandemic have made things a bit harder with getting to church, Art still volunteers in the usher ministry. “Ushering lets me help others and communicate with people, being there for them if they ever need anything,” he said.
Art loves Holy Cross because it’s not a big parish. “You’re not just another person there,” he said. “It’s just a nice place to be.”
For what he hopes for Holy Cross the next 60 years, Art said “children are the kingpin of what you’re trying to keep.” Children are important to keep the Catholic religion growing, he added.
Art typically attends the 5 p.m. Saturday mass where you can find him ushering the center aisle!