Interview with Deacon Bob and Charlene Hubbard
Deacon Bob Hubbard and his wife Charlene have lived in the same house for 60 years—the only house they ever owned. When they moved into the Garrett Park Estates neighborhood, Holy Cross Church wasn’t even built yet. “We went to Mass at Holy Cross Academy in their auditorium for a while,” Bob said.
All three of the Hubbard children were baptized and confirmed at Holy Cross Church, and they also attended Holy Cross Elementary School through eighth grade.
“Obviously there have been lots of changes to the neighborhood, church and school,” Hubbard said. “One thing in particular was the improvements and additions to the school—they allowed for more people to get the benefit of a Catholic education.”
Hubbard was eager to share what Holy Cross Church looked like before some renovations. The church itself has remained relatively the same, although the altar used to face the other direction and a communion rail used to enclose the sanctuary across the front of the church.
The Hubbard's were always willing to help with any improvements they thought were needed too. For example, there was a gold railing that went across the top of a wall near the former sacristy that had become discolored.
“I told Father Quinn it became discolored so I asked to paint it,” Charlene said. “He said okay so I went over and painted it!”
The sacristy was also next to a furnace room and was “so small, you would pull a drawer out and not be able to get around,” Bob said. Charlene and Bob remembered Monsignor Gatto building a new sacristy, the one we all know today.
As far as the ministries they’re called to at Holy Cross, Bob started studying to become a deacon when he was in his 60s. The program typically takes five years and now, he presides as deacon at one Mass every Sunday, typically the last one. He also does around 95 percent of the baptisms at the church and helps preside at funeral Masses and committals at cemeteries.
“I think there’s a feeling of satisfaction, doing something good,” Bob said. He mentioned the shortage of priests making deacons very important. He takes communion to the sick and also is around to talk to parishioners who may feel like they need to talk to someone who’s married and has kids, someone “who’s been through some things that priests haven’t been through,” Bob added.
His position as deacon is strictly volunteer work, so he joked he can’t be fired!
Charlene converted to Catholicism around 20 years ago. Since then, she has more than made her mark on the church. She has become a eucharistic minister, giving communion to the homebound and serves as president of the Over 50 Club. She’s active in Lunch Bunch and the Altar Society. Also, they often drive parishioners who need a ride to Sunday Mass.
“I’m always sitting in the front pew, people joke it’s my pew,” Charlene laughed.
Some stories from Holy Cross’s past that Bob and Charlene are fond of are how parishioners used to put on Broadway shows. There were also spaghetti dinners along with the shows. The couple also loved the picnics the church had in the summertime, with parishioners using the hill behind St. Angela’s Hall. The two are glad Holy Cross has picked up its picnic tradition again in recent years.
Before he retired, Bob used to be a professional photographer for 50 years and would often photograph Holy Cross’s events and all confirmations and communions and even some weddings.
“We moved into the neighborhood when we were in our 20s, we’re in our 80s now,” Bob said. “Back then, half of our block were Holy Cross members.”
He shared that it was the little things about his fellow neighborhood parishioners that he enjoyed.
“After big snows several of us men would go out and shovel each other’s driveways and afterward we’d have some beer—it was good times,” he said.
When asked why Holy Cross is the parish for them, Bob spoke of the friendliness and warmth of its people. “The priests have always been friendly and the people have always been so generous—just look at our Christmas Giving Tree this year,” he said. (Despite the pandemic, all 600+ gift requests were fulfilled.)
“It’s just a nice environment to live, work and practice your faith in,” he added.
As far as what they hope for Holy Cross for the next 60 years, they both believe the church will still be standing strong.
“There’s an awful lot of youngsters being baptized,” Bob said.